Romek, School of Tantra of the Heart, Edition X, March 2018

By experiencing masculinity on the tantra meetings, I am able to help other men in their search. This value is so precious, so important nowadays, that ignoring the disappearance of masculinity in the society in which I live is simply a sin against humanity.

I started my journey with Tantra in the spring of 2016. I drove into the unknown, carrying 2 bottles of wine in the trunk (just in case…), as a recommendation I had only the opinion of my two friends and photos of smiling people on the Tantra website. In the trunk, apart from wine and warm clothes, I also had fresh memories of my divorce, selling the house and an unexpected change of work. There was also a heavy luggage with me, packed with intimacy problems, alcohol, and perhaps the rests of depression. One thing I was sure and aware of was the existence of a glass ceiling, very low above me, through which I could see the sky and stars, where you I could spread my wings, but I did not know how to break through it and what limited me.

After I have finished the formation, I already know what this glass ceiling is and how to break through. I know that it is a set of all automatic behaviours and habits that do not allow me to look more broadly at the world and get rid of fear of judgment, anything new that comes and the fear of change.
My body threw away alcohol itself. Listening to my body, I noticed the destructive power of this drink. I stopped using it without much efforts from my side. I just stopped tolerating it and that’s it.

Intimate life has changed completely, it has got the meaning and depth together with the awareness that sex is not only a collection of learned positions and gestures but a beautiful, deep and conscious encounter with another human being.
I value every moment of my life now, I look carefully at the world around me and people, looking for events that give me joy and the meaning of life. I talk to men about life and our problems, not just about cars, money, work, alcohol and football.

By experiencing masculinity on the tantra meetings, I am able to help other men in their search. This value is so precious, so important nowadays, that ignoring the disappearance of masculinity in the society in which I live is simply a sin against humanity.

In conclusion, I have experienced a beautiful transformation, experiencing, in the Laboratory of Life which is Tantra, confronting with myself and all the feelings that accompanied it.

Thank you Mario, Gaia and all the assistants for every good word, advice and, above all, for great care and professionalism.

Romek, School of Tantra of the Heart, March 2018